By Keti   Jakeli

Surrounded by her peers  Nita was often bullied by her peers while playing in the yard, or at school. She was given an offensive  nickname, she was ridiculed, intimidated, threatened, physically assaulted .... Nita is very sensitive and it is uncomfortable for her to be in such an  environment, she feels oppressed, she no longer trusts people, she is afraid to  find herself in a similar situation again.Let us consider the case of Nita, and if something similar happens to us, let us know what we are dealing with and how we should act.

First of all, you will be interested in what bullying   is.

The term "bullying" means physical or psychological violence, intimidation, or harassment. There are three types of bullying: emotional, verbal and physical. Bullying can be done to a child by other people, including classmates and other peers.

How do we know we are a victim of bullying?

Manifestations of bullying include: calling offensive  names, ridicule, expulsion from the group, writing obscene words, seizure of possessions, abuse : written and verbal, expulsion from common activities, threats, intimidation, jostling, punching with fists or feet , defamation,  making the “victim”  feel  embarrassed, appear in a uncomfortable and unpleasant situation , to forced him/her  act against one's will.
If you have been in a similar situation, do not be afraid! Remember that there are people who can help you and do’t forget  that you are not alone.

How do we identify an  abuser  or a bully?

An  abusive, aggressive teenager tries to look older, stronger, is often rude to peers, superiors, family members ... He/she  is characterized by excessive energy, excessive positive or negative self-image, desire for power and domination over others, fear of becoming a victim of violence.

What desire drives the abuser?

The abuser demands to be in the center of attention, he/she  has difficulties with friends, does not realize his/her  own guilt, can not bring someone else's situation close to his/her  heart, cannot comprehend his/her  own aggressive behavior. Actions committed by the abuser against the victim may cause physical or psychological harm to the victim. All this is reflected in the quality of daily life of the adolescent.

A victim of bullying can be any of us, regardless of our status, beliefs, or physical characteristics.

The victim feels like a vulnerable, weak, oppressed person who is unable to make contact with other peers. He/she  avoids being in crowded places because he/she is afraid that he will be oppressed by others.

How can bullying be reveasled?

There are different types of bullying:

• TV bullying
• Cyber bullying
• Group violence
• Sexual bullying
• Emotional bullying
• Verbal bullying
• Body language bullying
• physical bullying

What cyberbullying means and the  dangers it implies?

In the 21st century, children are actively using different technologies, they are involved in social networks, they have access to different types of information, they make virtual friends. All this increases the risk of cyberbullying.

Cyberbullying is carried out using various technologies. The abuser can communicate anonymously with the victim. Cyberbullying can be done through email, social networks, websites and other means. This form of bullying is quite unpleasant and dangerous; Often the victim suffers serious psychological damage. Dealing with cyberbullying in our reality is a big challenge. It is important for a person to be aware of the harm that can be done to both the bully and his or her victim.

If you feel that the rights of you or those around you are being violated, that you are a victim of bullying, the Legal Aid Service is ready to provide you with a variety of legal assistance.

You can write to us in the chat on the website, as well as contact us on the hotline -1485; Or contact us at the number: 032 292 00 55

Do not close your eyes when you see how the rights of a person are violated, Remember that the step you take forward will change other people's lives for the better.

Let ‘s stand side by sider  to change our reality for the better !!!

The article is prepared using the materials mentioned below, although there is no analogue of them.

Source 1:  Teacher Professional Development Center - "Preventing Bullying in Schools and Promoting the Development of a Tolerant Culture"

Source 2 "Teaching and Assessment" Authors:  Rusudan Tkemaladze

                                                                            Nana Dalakishvili

                                                                            Ketevan Topadze

                                                                            Tatia  Pachkoria

                                                                            Tamar Butsashvili

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